If you want or need legal representation through the resolution of their family law matter, but do not want to use the court process, you and your spouse can hire attorneys with specialized training who limit the scope of their services to only out-of-court representation and are committed to working towards joint resolution on behalf of the family, including the children. Attorneys hired for Collaborative divorce will not represent you in the court process should negotiations break down, so you know that everyone’s focus is on reaching resolution. Most cases in Collaborative divorce reach full resolution so the risk of going to court is rather low.  Traditional, adversarial litigation can be costly, both financially and emotionally. Collaborative divorce allows people to take a higher-minded, more civilized, and respectful approach to divorce.  TLSMN can help you consider whether a Collaborative divorce is a good fit for you.